Pros and cons of internet dating sites
The fact is that lists of personal and physical characteristics have little or nothing to do with the real person.
Human beings are much too complex to be reduced down to lists.
For many others, online dating is a study in frustration and disillusionment. There are websites that proclaim that they have “scientific methods” of matching people.
However, in doing so, it’s important to keep in mind that the profiles really say little about who this person is.
We used to keep in touch a couple times a week and play some tennis, but not anymore. After my match, I curiously hopped on back like any good nosy friend would to see what was up. “ After an hour of conversation and some further research on my own (6 months undercover), I’ve come up with Sam’s guide to understanding online dating. It’s rough for guys to pick up girls at a bar sometimes.
After a match at the club yesterday, I saw him walk by with some girl to the hot tub. Even if the girl is with her girlfriends or by herself, the law of logic states that if you find her attractive, every other guy will find her attractive, which means she already has a boyfriend and you are wasting your time!
More than a few people I have met in my therapy practice complain that the person with whom they are emailing promptly and abruptly stopped contacting them.
Also, there are those who seem to want to engage in emailing and promise to make a time to meet but always put it off to another time.