My son is dating a black girl
And frankly, I just wouldn’t let my guard down to the idea of hooking up with a white American guy when there were so many Afro-Brasilian men in my surroundings.
I was prejudiced, or in kinder words had a preference, for brown beautiful men.
This is the reason that recently the trend of sugar daddy, seeking the black girls has enhanced.
Shocked, he laughed and said, “I totally thought you were Brasilian.” He wouldn’t be the first to make the assumption.
Janice Rhoshalle Littlejohn, co-author of the soon-to-be released put it best in the chapter called, “Let’s Talk About Sex …
and Stereotypes”: “We think we have evolved into new-millennium modern-day thinkers, but black women all over the country, regardless of education and socioeconomic status, are living with age-old ideas when it comes to our consideration of the ideal sexual partner.
So when I finally allowed myself to sexually enjoy and explore men of other races and cultures, I found these stereotypes blatantly untrue, just as several of the Black men that I had shared my body with didn’t live up to the Mandingo standard.
My first time with this White kid from Jersey was intense.