Dating the talk
Unfortunately, you may not be able to prevent this from happening again.You can’t control another person’s honesty nor can you control their feelings for another person.Question: "What does the Bible say about dating / courting?" Answer: Although the words “courtship” and “dating” are not found in the Bible, we are given some principles that Christians are to go by during the time before marriage.” Since you’ve already slept with Steve, you can talk about monogamy, but it won’t be as easy after you’ve had sex. I suggest you fill your own needs and spend time with good friends, doing things you love outside of the relationship.
I wish I could go back in time before sleeping with him on our second date and bring up how I felt earlier, but it seems like it should be pretty self-explanatory.
If you believe that to be true and you stay with him, then you are sabotaging yourself.
You can tell him that you would like more emotional support, and be specific about what that means to you. If he doesn’t want a serious monogamous relationship right now, be ready to walk away with your dignity intact.
You might say, “I am really attracted to you, and I wanted to let you know that I only sleep with men when I’m in an exclusive relationship. Tell him how much you care for him, but you need to move on and find someone who does want a serious relationship. Everyone needs a different amount of time together in relationships.
If and when the day comes, you’ll be in for the night of your life! Perhaps if you felt secure about how Steve felt about you, you would not put a number on the hours of time he needed to spend with you.